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In our navies there are many traditions, one of them is the “Sea-Daddy”.
The Sea
Daddy is someone that either gets assigned to you or for whatever reason
attaches
to you. Ray was my sea-daddy. In the years I knew him I learned more about
my
job and about life than in the previous 20 odd years. Ray was my mentor,
my
friend, my confidant, my brother and my father all in one. There are very
few times
in life when a man can find another that can fit all those things, and
I feel extremely
lucky that he was part of my life for the last 6 years. He always knew
what to say to
me, always. When I was down he always cheered me up, when I made a mistake
(and there were plenty of those) he always gave me a swift kick in the
rear and got
me going in the right direction…followed by a pat in the back and
a quick word of
encouragement. I am sure I gave him plenty of excuses to be mad at me
but he
never held a grudge. All in all, I am extremely proud that Scouse was
my Sea-
Daddy, couldn’t have asked for a better one.
I have told many people this, including the AHDC and Ronco, Ray was the
reason
our program there was successful. Every time there was a problem it was
Ray that
fixed it. Every time I got stuck in the field, it was Ray that came to
my rescue. Ray
and I always played “good cop, bad cop” with him always been
the good guy, I
wouldn’t have it any other way. I can tell you without a shadow
of a doubt that he
was admired and respected, both as a friend and co-worker, by everyone.
I never
met anyone that had anything bad to say about Ray anywhere.
Luis |